tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1632482527986001834.post1426104075830397948..comments2023-02-10T00:37:49.107-08:00Comments on Servitude: One pet's Journey: i've come to a conclusionLilikkahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02369646866452427758noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1632482527986001834.post-49905231433394114142009-06-17T12:13:38.929-07:002009-06-17T12:13:38.929-07:00Therapy and counseling never really helped me much...Therapy and counseling never really helped me much either.<br /><br />What really changed my life was processing all the negative emotions and messages I was putting on myself or accepting from others. This took years and months, but I'm finally at a point where if I want to cut, I know it's just because I like cutting, not because I'm so upset that it's the only thing I can think of to keep me sane.<br /><br />I think we have much more healing power for ourselves than we give ourselves credit for.<br /><br />My other life-changing habit: loving myself. I only recently realized how deeply and truly I was hating myself. Now I pour love and affection over myself and I am so much happier with life, with others and in my relationships.<br /><br />I hope you find your way through the problems that are bothering you.Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15687511936160956984noreply@blogger.com