We all have our roles to play in life. But what irks me more than anything is when someone plays at being something that they know little to nothing about. A supposed "Dom" i was talking to today is like that. He didn't know what safe, sane and consensual meant, and his whole stance was he "wants to get inside a girl's head before he gets into her pants." That disgusts me more than i can say. If i personally knew the girl he was trying to get to sub for him, i would warn her of his thoughts, but since i don't know who she is, there's not much i can do other than continue to warn people who are new to all of this to really do some research before jumping in.
Along the same thought of playing roles, i've decided that i am going to try my best to be my succubus side as much as possible. Even if it's just play acting at the time, it will eventually become second nature. Or, as i once read in a book, i'll fake it 'til i make it. i truly think that's the best way for me to advance with both my submission and embracing my succubus side.